The idea of moving on

My friend Rachel forwarded me to this post on Kelley Lynn's website, where she talks about the idea of moving on. I thank her for the thoughtful and self respecting words. Nobody has yet asked me to move on, and now it's been a year since losing Kristan, the center of my universe for over 30 years. She's so on target – every single thing has changed, and most people don't get that. In all fairness to the well-wishers who speak such hurtful things, I like to think that if I were ever to ask someone to move on, I would be asking them to not let their memories of their previous life paralyze them, leaving them unable to function in today's world. That is the only thing that I wish I could move on from.